About me Early Retirement Journey Fall 2018 Sabbatical 2020

Sabbatical 2020: In Which I Take Back My Life

Welcome back to My Early Retirement Journey. I have a lot on my mind at the moment, and this post has been brewing for a while. The initial draft was started earlier in the summer, but the idea of taking time off from work is documented in my personal journal as early as March 2017 (1.5 years after I started working). I bet it was even earlier but I keep paper journals as well and those are not as searchable. I am just beating around the bush because although I have been thinking about leaving the workforce for a long time, announcing it publicly even to a small forum of readers makes it seem indelible somehow even though I am only really accountable to myself. My thoughts are scattered both figuratively and literally all over the place.  To try to organize them in a meaningful way, I am going back to elementary school expository writing structure. In this post, I shall identify the who, what, when, where, why, how of my decision to take a sabbatical in the year 2020. I reserve the right to update and change this post over time.


Me, this single-on-purpose girl, and me alone (oh, and my bff God, of course). I recently posited for the first time in public whether I wanted to take a sabbatical in five years or FIRE for good in ten years. Given the recent series of events to include the mild but regular downward shift in my personal health and wellness and the added responsibility of managing the affairs of an elderly parent, a sabbatical seems imperative… sometimes.  I want to include my hesitation here because on some days I am strongly convinced a sabbatical is the next best move, and other days I think I can just stick it out like everyone else. The latter occurs when my back and shoulder do not hurt as much; or it is the weekend; or I have not spoken to Aunty MERJ in a couple of days. I feel selfish even typing this, but I just want to get away. This desire to escape from the stagnancy that is my current life is not a new or temporary feeling; the recent events I described are not a nidus but more an impetus of this desire.

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The whole reason I started this blog was to document my journey out of the workforce and into financial independence. I am simply redefining the parameters at this point. So, while I shall certainly not be financially independent by 2020, my plan (God-willing) is to save enough money to be financially-able for a while. Five years to be exact.

Until this moment, I was vacillating between leaving the workforce (on my own terms) in two years and sticking it out a little longer to properly reach financial independence and retire early. But I am about 51% sure now. So here is my declaration of intent. I intend to leave the workforce on my own terms: Labor Day 2020, Monday, Sep 7, 2020.  That will be five years from when I first started working at my current job in my chosen profession in medical communications for a pharmaceutical company.

I knew this was the job I wanted when I was still in professional school (or graduate school to some), and I was so happy when I finally got it, thanks to a fellow classmate who referred me. The work itself was exactly what I thought it would be – structured and rote. Just as I thought I wanted my life to be. I was wrong. It turns out I would rather be inspired by my surroundings. I am not growing as a person or professionally.

The workplace dynamics while not unexpected is not completely ideal. I do not really like any of the people I work with, but I do not suppose that is all that unusual. In general, my motto is I do not go to work to make friends, I go to work to make money. I am not one of those people who is proud to say I have been working since age 12 or age 16 or the like, nor am I one of those people who believes if you love what you do, it won’t feel like work.  If that were true, it would just be called love. There would not be a separate word for it.

You can call it frame of mind or work ethic. You can call it whatever you want; I do not have it.  These different facets of the workforce may have played a role somewhat in where I am now, but my health has played the biggest role. I have never been sick so many days in any time frame or paid so much for healthcare. Given the last nine to twelve months of my health history, I do not seem to be getting better health wise. It is perfectly acceptable for parents to take time away from the workforce to nurture their family. Similarly, I am taking time off to nurture myself.

Physically, I have carpal tunnel in my right wrist aggravated by eight hours a day of computer work; poor gut health; persistent mild to moderate neck, shoulder, back, leg, tailbone, leg, side pain. Additionally, my incision wound from my surgery in March 2018 still has not healed. It weeps like my soul. My mental health seems to be on the decline as well. I have intermittent trouble focusing and recalling event details.  I used to be really smart and clever and sharp. Those seem like different words to mean the same thing, but not to me.

On the wellness front, I would love to be part of a community again, do good works, and be part of a church. I want to work on my spiritual growth and seek joy.

Overall, what I hope to accomplish with this sabbatical is to heal within and without.


Start:  Labor Day 2020, Monday, September 7, 2020

End: 2025 (tentative)


I do not know yet where I shall go. I currently live in North Carolina, and I think a proper fresh start would involve a big move. However my primary focus will be a place that is in my budget. Logistically, it would be easier to stay in the United States.  Some affordable cities I have looked into include Lillington NC, Missoula MT, and Bloomington IN. Adventure is certainly built into trying out a brand new identity in a brand new country. Some affordable countries I have looked into include Chiang Mai Thailand, La Algarve region Portugal, Croatia, and Spain.   The first roadblock for me with international destinations is obtaining a visa to stay longer than three months. Travel and adventure is not my priority so moving to a new place every few months would detract from my goal of finding calm and peace and a simpler life. Overall, my focus for a destination is one that is in my price range that will allow me to accomplish my sabbatical objective.

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As I mentioned, I want to nurture myself back to whole again. I am achy all the time. I sleep but I am not well rested. It could be something as simple as my mattress. Or it could be mental stress manifesting as physical pain.  It could be sitting in the same position eight hours a day.  It could be my lack of social interaction. I do not know, but I am starting with eliminating my job. Even as I write this, it is not as cathartic as I thought it would be. I am mostly just scared now. What if leaving my job fixes nothing. I shared some of these same thoughts in my guest post on another blog.

…The wrench in the situation is I still do not know what exactly to do once I retire. In fact, once early retirement became a possibility, I found myself retreating a bit. I had  gotten used to this idea that I would have to work for the rest of my life. It was my security blanket of sorts. I had gotten comfortable in my mediocrity and my pursuit of nothing. I got comfortable having work be a time-suck and energy-drain.  Because if work was sucking all the life out of me, no one could blame me for holing up in my house every night and weekend, right?

…I mean who says just because I have time to do it that I am suddenly going to start eating more vegetables; exercising more; flossing twice a day; communing with nature on nature walks; be a service to my community; end world hunger;  bring about world peace; find a church family; find my purpose; or experience life altering, past hurt-erasing joy?

Perhaps the question is not whether to FIRE in five years or ten years, but rather what if I do all this, and it does not work?  What if after two or five or ten years, I am still just as aimless and discontented as I am now?  I shall be out of options, then what? ~ My Early Retirement Journey on Scotch Street

I shall say this though – having this milestone makes the noise more bearable. On the other hand, maybe I am just getting pulled into a different kind of noise.  Honestly, I do not know if this is the right decision, but it is a decision. And it is something to which I can look forward. Even if I fail, my life now is not that bad.


So how exactly will I be able to swing this financially. More than one person has pointed out that even my initial plan to FIRE is flawed because of my massive student debt. But my financial independence plan never included student loan debt elimination. So maybe that means I do not match that definition of financially independent. I am okay with it.

Here is what I have so far in my financial plan to pursue a sabbatical in 2020.  Check out my Budget Struggles page for notes on this and other calculations along this journey.

The best thing I have taken away from the FIRE community is not just great tips and support on savings and investing but learning to get comfortable with the numbers. I may have doubts about what I may actually achieve during my sabbatical, but as for funding it – either I shall have the money to do it or I shall not. That need not be one of the unknowns.

Sabbatical 2020 Budget: $1,500/mon  ($18,000/yr)

Duration of time: 5 years

Total needed: $90,000

But, and this is a big but, I need to save and have this money in my bank account and my brokerage account. I do not plan on taking money out of my 401k to fund this sabbatical, nor do I plan on stopping contributions to my 401k. I may do a Roth conversion ladder after the fact, but that is down the line.

Sept 2018 check-in. (accurate as of 30Aug2018)

Savings (currently earmarked as my Safety Net Fund): $22,628

Brokerage Account:  $33,378

Total: $56,006

Difference (left to save): $90,000 – 56,000 = $34,000

Left to save: $34,000

By my calculations, I should be able to save this much in my savings and brokerage account by Sept 2020.  My annual savings target is not going to change much from where it is now, I am just going to access it sooner.

As the time gets closer, the plan would be to max out my 401k and Roth IRA early in 2020 and funnel the rest to my savings (as opposed to brokerage account) so it is easier to access when I pull the trigger.


Maybe all you need is another job?

Maybe not.

What if you lose your job before then?

I shall continue along the plan to raise my goal amount and sabbatical when I reach that amount.

What if you get to your goal amount before Labor Day 2020?

I don’t see how that could happen.

What if you fall in love and get married or pregos?

Don’t make me laugh.

What if your health declines further and you need routine doctor’s visits?

For this I have no answer. I would probably have to keep working to get health insurance. Alternatively, I would need to figure out how much health insurance would cost on the marketplace and sum that figure into my Sabbatical Budget. Furthermore, I am in the process of taking preliminary steps to at least maintain or better my current health. Check out my back to school life list for more info.



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  1. This is a fantastic post. Thank you for it! I’m sorry to hear about your emotional and physical pain. I suppose that’s just what happens when we work in a job we don’t like, with a culture and an environment that we don’t quite enjoy either. I also suffer from sleepless nights and anxiety ☹ In time to come, maybe when I’m in my late-20s, I don’t doubt that physical pain will find its way into my body either.

    September 2020 is only 2 short years away, although I know it seems like an eternity while actually slaving away at work. Nevertheless, I’m really excited for you! I’m looking forward to following your journey as you save up and prepare for your sabbatical. I hope this has provided you with some motivation to get through the next 2 years so you can get your well-deserved sabbatical 😊

    1. My Early Retirement Journey says:

      Thanks, Liz. What a thoughtful comment. Thank you for your encouraging words as well. I really hope your work-life doesn’t resemble mine in the future. Life is too beautiful to waste being miserable! 🙂

  2. This is an exciting plan! I think you actually need more than 90k, because when you return to work you will need something to live on while looking/transitioning. You could call it a re-entry fund. It could just be sitting there while you are on your sabbatical, until you need it. Good luck!

    1. My Early Retirement Journey says:

      You are absolutely right, SMS. I will probably build the 6 month re-entry period into the sabbatical itself. Good point!

  3. I’m Really pleased you’ve set a date. Only 2 short years which may drag so maybe work on Plan B which might include moving as per Plan A but finding some temp or part time work after a few months? If you worked 3 months a year in a seasonal job, it would cut how much you needed to save and maybe could escape after 1 year or 18 months instead?

    1. My Early Retirement Journey says:

      A woman after my own heart. Yes, from 30 years to 10 years, to now just 2 years… the wheels of escape have not stopped churning. 🙂

  4. Awesome post! You’re on the right track to saving up for your sabbatical! Thanks for the breakdown!
    Also I just wanted to say that I love the site redesign. I barely recognised it from the last time I visited! Keep up the awesome work!

    1. My Early Retirement Journey says:

      Thank, Janet! That means a lot coming from a super star blogger like yourself 🙂

  5. Christopher Hipskind says:

    Exciting! And I know what you are going thru. I just ended a sabbatical and your thoughts brought back so many memories.

    Email if you feel like chatting.

    1. Thanks, Christopher! How did you decide on a sabbatical? What’d you do? Where’d you go? Did it help?

  6. Lynn Cummings says:

    Love the post, keeping on working your dream. However as someone who has a chronic illness, TAKE CARE of YOURSELF first ! Physically & mentally so you’ll be able to enjoy and live the life you have envisioned.

    1. Thanks, Lynn! That’s good advice. I’m struggling to find a balance. How’d you find me?

      1. Lynn Cummings says:

        Rockstar Finance

  7. This is such an interesting idea! It is definitely a good idea to do something like this before your health gets much worse. Unfortunately full time work in an office isn’t conducive to great health for many people.

    1. I know! So true. I walk through the aisles at work and see all the desk modifications…it’s like a crippled colony

  8. Marcela says:

    I just discovered your blog through The Financial Diet and I am so glad I did! I am a 30 something working momma who dreams of more and is just ending my financial debt (unfortunately, I had to file for BK). Since I needed to get back on track with my finances, I have been researching endlessly financial blogs and perusing the hashtag #debtfreecommunity. I look forward to reading through your blog and pray you get some relief from the stress of life and physical aches. I know those feelings all too well.

    1. Oh that’s awesome! Thanks for stopping by Marcela. I heart TFD. Thanks for the warm thoughts. There are lots of blogs out there with all sorts of journeys and if mine is not what you need, I’m sure you will find what you are looking for. Keep fighting for the debtfree life! I must look more into that hashtag….

  9. Marsha Bowlin says:

    Choose Bloomington

    1. Hi, Marsha!
      Thanks for stopping by! Any particular reason why?
      If you haven’t already, I hope you’ll consider subscribing to the blog! 🙂

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